Getting over someone who has hurt us and betrayed our trust is not an easy thing to do. Being taken for granted and exchanged for someone else could be very disappointing. Our lives become miserable as we try to make believe that everything is fine just to keep our self-esteem.
We will continue to keep the person in our hearts because so many questions were left unanswered. But betrayal & being taken for granted are more than enough answers and reason to let go. You don't have to make believe and pretend you are happy when you're not. You should cry and lament over the loss but don't let your tears run dry. Don't starve yourself to death for someone who never respected your feelings and who was never really worthy of your love.
Sometimes we just have to control our feelings for someone. We have to let our head do the thinking and let our hearts rest for a while. Our feelings don’t know what is right and what is wrong. That is why our minds reason with us so there can be balance. Otherwise we would always trip as we aimlessly follow the dictates of our hearts.
Let your hearts find refuge in God’s loving arms because somewhere in His time there will be a hope in finding love, joy in sharing it and happiness in being able to keep it forever.
